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I am ME. Hear me ROAR.
The Sassy Urbanite is SarahC, an individual who believes in independence, determination and dedication. Desires to become - a lawyer cum entrepeneur cum politician cum superstar*winks* cum author , who can be very extroverted, but enjoys quiet time alone as well. An almost perfect gemini, who can curl up to a book on a warm Sunday afternoon, with soft jazz in the background and also, party all night long with friends. Loves writing, literature, dancing, reading, socializing, good music, fun movies, creative romance, stillettos, sunsets, arguing for no reason at all, pretty dresses, red, spending quality time with her honey bunch, friends and family.
WARNING: Randomness, and way too many questions. Dances like there's no tomorrow.Loudness.Do not test her patience.
Perfection is a continuous desire, that's worth fighting for.




Everyone is given 24 hrs in a day, not a minute more, not a second less. it's what you make of it. Look, listen, choose, act.

Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion: You have high extroversion. You are outgoing and engaging, with both strangers and friends. You truly enjoy being with people and bring energy into any situation. Enthusiastic and fun, you're the first to say "let's go!" Conscientiousness: You have medium conscientiousness. You're generally good at balancing work and play. When you need to buckle down, you can usually get tasks done. But you've been known to goof off when you know you can get away with it. Agreeableness: You have low agreeableness. Your self interest comes first, and others come later, if at all. In general, you feel that people are not to be trusted. And you're skeptical that anyone else really feels differently. Neuroticism: You have low neuroticism. You are very emotionally stable and mentally together. Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly. Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed - making others feel secure. Openness to experience: Your openness to new experiences is high. In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas. You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits. A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything.
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Qikikins
Nattie Ong
Alsie
WongLilo
Adrienne
Serena
Sara Lau
Alex JW
Naddie
JennieGu
Mel
Brendot
Azzah
Yue
Tareeq
Sufi
Leesh
Ashie
Ginny Han
My PinkPanther Pal-YWJ
Koko Kelvin Lim
Kar Leng
Li Qing
The Drama King-Zhi
Zephyr
June Adelyn
Kervin
Phillip Darling
Brad the Climber
Brendan Lim the Music Producer
King Arthur
Jason Wason
Iya Dahling from Illinois =p
Kavidha Dear
Vineeta Tan
Terri Werri
Qabby Qabir
Alea
Sue Lynn
Steffie
MR. Politician
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Saturday, September 06, 2008
Free my wings, let me soar

It has been a packed week , filled with days of preparation shopping, last minute errands halfway across town, documents organization, trips to the appliance store down the road, attempts at some basic cooking (yes, something I was in fact, forced to do!), fun-filled catch-up sessions, and well, this is it.

In a few hours time, I will be leaving this land of comfort that I've grown to love, to unknown waters, with the hope that I will become everything I desire to be along the way. I will be leaving the nest that has sheltered me with warmth and love, the family that has nurtured me all these years, the great friends that have seen me through thick and thin, and everything in between; and I will have to find my way alone a path that at this point, still remains a blurry image.

I'm looking and re-looking at the list, assuring myself that all is sorted- my scholarship documents, my visa, my baggage, university related documents; and yet I still feel that bit of insecurity that there's more to be done. The truth is, the reality of everything pulling through so well is still sinking in: and now the mix of feelings is beginning to overwhelm: will I still achieve under different circumstances, of what nature will the people I meet be, how true is it that one's journey of self-discovery and maturity occurs at this significant point in one's life?

As excited as I am to be able to pursue my dreams abroad, the fear still exists alongside and I wonder how things would change overtime.

I wonder how much of what is left behind still remains the same, untouched, and how much alters with the passage of moments.

Alas! I must put a stop here to my rambling thoughts- and take it as it comes, doing the very best I know how each step of the way.

As for now, all that I have left to say is thank you,

to you, for showing me the essence of love 

to you, for believing in me even when I didn't

to you, for lifting my spirits up when I was down

to you, for giving me the reality check needed here and then

to you, for the fun, random moments filled with infectious laughter

to you, for your patience and understanding

to you, for giving me guidance and hope

to you, you and you, for everything and more.

Please keep in touch, do not allow the distance to estrange us; technology will make things easier- and I will update my blog with further details once I'm settled in.

All the best, in your own pursuits.

 

 



For now, it is  my time.

Free my wings, let me soar.

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Friday, August 29, 2008
The Tabula Rasa
There is this thought that we all come into this world a blank slate - a tabula rasa; of which has no initial knowledge, emotions, or history of origin. And upon life, layers of our own experiences ,build up of others' influences; we become who we are today.Individuals who consist of a mix of existing elements which definite combination makes us uniquely; ourselves.

The question here then is, how original are we?

When we do research, do we really form our own thoughts; or merely remain the continuously flinching advocator of an already established perspective?
Are we truly, our own beings with entirely one-of-a-kind minds?

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Obama's acceptance text- an inspiring speech to add to my collection:
Read if you please- it definitely adds insight to the world ahead of us: one of which I'm confident Obama would change for the greater good on behalf of the superpower of the globe.


With profound gratitude and great humility, I accept your nomination for the presidency of the United States.

Let me express my thanks to the historic slate of candidates who accompanied me on this journey, and especially the one who traveled the farthest - a champion for working Americans and an inspiration to my daughters and to yours -- Hillary Rodham Clinton. To President Clinton, who last night made the case for change as only he can make it; to Ted Kennedy, who embodies the spirit of service; and to the next Vice President of the United States, Joe Biden, I thank you. I am grateful to finish this journey with one of the finest statesmen of our time, a man at ease with everyone from world leaders to the conductors on the Amtrak train he still takes home every night.

To the love of my life, our next First Lady, Michelle Obama, and to Sasha and Malia - I love you so much, and I'm so proud of all of you.

Four years ago, I stood before you and told you my story - of the brief union between a young man from Kenya and a young woman from Kansas who weren't well-off or well-known, but shared a belief that in America, their son could achieve whatever he put his mind to.

It is that promise that has always set this country apart - that through hard work and sacrifice, each of us can pursue our individual dreams but still come together as one American family, to ensure that the next generation can pursue their dreams as well.
That's why I stand here tonight. Because for two hundred and thirty two years, at each moment when that promise was in jeopardy, ordinary men and women - students and soldiers, farmers and teachers, nurses and janitors -- found the courage to keep it alive.

We meet at one of those defining moments - a moment when our nation is at war, our economy is in turmoil, and the American promise has been threatened once more.

Tonight, more Americans are out of work and more are working harder for less. More of you have lost your homes and even more are watching your home values plummet. More of you have cars you can't afford to drive, credit card bills you can't afford to pay, and tuition that's beyond your reach.
These challenges are not all of government's making. But the failure to respond is a direct result of a broken politics in Washington and the failed policies of George W. Bush.

America, we are better than these last eight years. We are a better country than this.
This country is more decent than one where a woman in Ohio, on the brink of retirement, finds herself one illness away from disaster after a lifetime of hard work.
This country is more generous than one where a man in Indiana has to pack up the equipment he's worked on for twenty years and watch it shipped off to China, and then chokes up as he explains how he felt like a failure when he went home to tell his family the news.

We are more compassionate than a government that lets veterans sleep on our streets and families slide into poverty; that sits on its hands while a major American city drowns before our eyes.

Tonight, I say to the American people, to Democrats and Republicans and Independents across this great land - enough! This moment - this election - is our chance to keep, in the 21st century, the American promise alive. Because next week, in Minnesota, the same party that brought you two terms of George Bush and Dick Cheney will ask this country for a third. And we are here because we love this country too much to let the next four years look like the last eight. On November 4th, we must stand up and say: "Eight is enough."

Now let there be no doubt. The Republican nominee, John McCain, has worn the uniform of our country with bravery and distinction, and for that we owe him our gratitude and respect. And next week, we'll also hear about those occasions when he's broken with his party as evidence that he can deliver the change that we need.
But the record's clear: John McCain has voted with George Bush ninety percent of the time. Senator McCain likes to talk about judgment, but really, what does it say about your judgment when you think George Bush has been right more than ninety percent of the time? I don't know about you, but I'm not ready to take a ten percent chance on change.

The truth is, on issue after issue that would make a difference in your lives - on health care and education and the economy - Senator McCain has been anything but independent. He said that our economy has made "great progress" under this President. He said that the fundamentals of the economy are strong. And when one of his chief advisors - the man who wrote his economic plan - was talking about the anxiety Americans are feeling, he said that we were just suffering from a "mental recession," and that we've become, and I quote, "a nation of whiners."


Now, I don't believe that Senator McCain doesn't care what's going on in the lives of Americans. I just think he doesn't know. Why else would he define middle-class as someone making under five million dollars a year? How else could he propose hundreds of billions in tax breaks for big corporations and oil companies but not one penny of tax relief to more than one hundred million Americans? How else could he offer a health care plan that would actually tax people's benefits, or an education plan that would do nothing to help families pay for college, or a plan that would privatize Social Security and gamble your retirement?

It's not because John McCain doesn't care. It's because John McCain doesn't get it.
For over two decades, he's subscribed to that old, discredited Republican philosophy - give more and more to those with the most and hope that prosperity trickles down to everyone else. In Washington, they call this the Ownership Society, but what it really means is - you're on your own. Out of work? Tough luck. No health care? The market will fix it. Born into poverty? Pull yourself up by your own bootstraps - even if you don't have boots. You're on your own.
Well it's time for them to own their failure. It's time for us to change America.
You see, we Democrats have a very different measure of what constitutes progress in this country.

We measure progress by how many people can find a job that pays the mortgage; whether you can put a little extra money away at the end of each month so you can someday watch your child receive her college diploma. We measure progress in the 23 million new jobs that were created when Bill Clinton was President - when the average American family saw its income go up $7,500 instead of down $2,000 like it has under George Bush.

We measure the strength of our economy not by the number of billionaires we have or the profits of the Fortune 500, but by whether someone with a good idea can take a risk and start a new business, or whether the waitress who lives on tips can take a day off to look after a sick kid without losing her job - an economy that honors the dignity of work.

The fundamentals we use to measure economic strength are whether we are living up to that fundamental promise that has made this country great - a promise that is the only reason I am standing here tonight.
Because in the faces of those young veterans who come back from Iraq and Afghanistan, I see my grandfather, who signed up after Pearl Harbor, marched in Patton's Army, and was rewarded by a grateful nation with the chance to go to college on the GI Bill.

In the face of that young student who sleeps just three hours before working the night shift, I think about my mom, who raised my sister and me on her own while she worked and earned her degree; who once turned to food stamps but was still able to send us to the best schools in the country with the help of student loans and scholarships.

When I listen to another worker tell me that his factory has shut down, I remember all those men and women on the South Side of Chicago who I stood by and fought for two decades ago after the local steel plant closed.

And when I hear a woman talk about the difficulties of starting her own business, I think about my grandmother, who worked her way up from the secretarial pool to middle-management, despite years of being passed over for promotions because she was a woman. She's the one who taught me about hard work. She's the one who put off buying a new car or a new dress for herself so that I could have a better life. She poured everything she had into me. And although she can no longer travel, I know that she's watching tonight, and that tonight is her night as well.

I don't know what kind of lives John McCain thinks that celebrities lead, but this has been mine. These are my heroes. Theirs are the stories that shaped me. And it is on their behalf that I intend to win this election and keep our promise alive as President of the United States.

What is that promise?
It's a promise that says each of us has the freedom to make of our own lives what we will, but that we also have the obligation to treat each other with dignity and respect.
It's a promise that says the market should reward drive and innovation and generate growth, but that businesses should live up to their responsibilities to create American jobs, look out for American workers, and play by the rules of the road.
Ours is a promise that says government cannot solve all our problems, but what it should do is that which we cannot do for ourselves - protect us from harm and provide every child a decent education; keep our water clean and our toys safe; invest in new schools and new roads and new science and technology.
Our government should work for us, not against us. It should help us, not hurt us. It should ensure opportunity not just for those with the most money and influence, but for every American who's willing to work.

That's the promise of America - the idea that we are responsible for ourselves, but that we also rise or fall as one nation; the fundamental belief that I am my brother's keeper; I am my sister's keeper.

That's the promise we need to keep. That's the change we need right now. So let me spell out exactly what that change would mean if I am President.

Change means a tax code that doesn't reward the lobbyists who wrote it, but the American workers and small businesses who deserve it.

Unlike John McCain, I will stop giving tax breaks to corporations that ship jobs overseas, and I will start giving them to companies that create good jobs right here in America.
I will eliminate capital gains taxes for the small businesses and the start-ups that will create the high-wage, high-tech jobs of tomorrow.
I will cut taxes - cut taxes - for 95% of all working families. Because in an economy like this, the last thing we should do is raise taxes on the middle-class.

Washington's been talking about our oil addiction for the last thirty years, and John McCain has been there for twenty-six of them. In that time, he's said no to higher fuel-efficiency standards for cars, no to investments in renewable energy, no to renewable fuels. And today, we import triple the amount of oil as the day that Senator McCain took office.
Now is the time to end this addiction, and to understand that drilling is a stop-gap measure, not a long-term solution. Not even close.
As President, I will tap our natural gas reserves, invest in clean coal technology, and find ways to safely harness nuclear power. I'll help our auto companies re-tool, so that the fuel-efficient cars of the future are built right here in America. I'll make it easier for the American people to afford these new cars. And I'll invest 150 billion dollars over the next decade in affordable, renewable sources of energy - wind power and solar power and the next generation of biofuels; an investment that will lead to new industries and five million new jobs that pay well and can't ever be outsourced.

America, now is not the time for small plans.
Now is the time to finally meet our moral obligation to provide every child a world-class education, because it will take nothing less to compete in the global economy. Michelle and I are only here tonight because we were given a chance at an education. And I will not settle for an America where some kids don't have that chance. I'll invest in early childhood education. I'll recruit an army of new teachers, and pay them higher salaries and give them more support. And in exchange, I'll ask for higher standards and more accountability. And we will keep our promise to every young American - if you commit to serving your community or your country, we will make sure you can afford a college education.

Now is the time to finally keep the promise of affordable, accessible health care for every single American. If you have health care, my plan will lower your premiums. If you don't, you'll be able to get the same kind of coverage that members of Congress give themselves. And as someone who watched my mother argue with insurance companies while she lay in bed dying of cancer, I will make certain those companies stop discriminating against those who are sick and need care the most.
Now is the time to help families with paid sick days and better family leave, because nobody in America should have to choose between keeping their jobs and caring for a sick child or ailing parent.

Now is the time to change our bankruptcy laws, so that your pensions are protected ahead of CEO bonuses; and the time to protect Social Security for future generations.
And now is the time to keep the promise of equal pay for an equal day's work, because I want my daughters to have exactly the same opportunities as your sons.
Now, many of these plans will cost money, which is why I've laid out how I'll pay for every dime - by closing corporate loopholes and tax havens that don't help America grow. But I will also go through the federal budget, line by line, eliminating programs that no longer work and making the ones we do need work better and cost less - because we cannot meet twenty-first century challenges with a twentieth century bureaucracy.
And Democrats, we must also admit that fulfilling America's promise will require more than just money. It will require a renewed sense of responsibility from each of us to recover what John F. Kennedy called our "intellectual and moral strength." Yes, government must lead on energy independence, but each of us must do our part to make our homes and businesses more efficient. Yes, we must provide more ladders to success for young men who fall into lives of crime and despair. But we must also admit that programs alone can't replace parents; that government can't turn off the television and make a child do her homework; that fathers must take more responsibility for providing the love and guidance their children need.
Individual responsibility and mutual responsibility - that's the essence of America's promise.

And just as we keep our keep our promise to the next generation here at home, so must we keep America's promise abroad. If John McCain wants to have a debate about who has the temperament, and judgment, to serve as the next Commander-in-Chief, that's a debate I'm ready to have.

For while Senator McCain was turning his sights to Iraq just days after 9/11, I stood up and opposed this war, knowing that it would distract us from the real threats we face. When John McCain said we could just "muddle through" in Afghanistan, I argued for more resources and more troops to finish the fight against the terrorists who actually attacked us on 9/11, and made clear that we must take out Osama bin Laden and his lieutenants if we have them in our sights. John McCain likes to say that he'll follow bin Laden to the Gates of Hell - but he won't even go to the cave where he lives.

And today, as my call for a time frame to remove our troops from Iraq has been echoed by the Iraqi government and even the Bush Administration, even after we learned that Iraq has a $79 billion surplus while we're wallowing in deficits, John McCain stands alone in his stubborn refusal to end a misguided war.
That's not the judgment we need. That won't keep America safe. We need a President who can face the threats of the future, not keep grasping at the ideas of the past.

You don't defeat a terrorist network that operates in eighty countries by occupying Iraq. You don't protect Israel and deter Iran just by talking tough in Washington. You can't truly stand up for Georgia when you've strained our oldest alliances. If John McCain wants to follow George Bush with more tough talk and bad strategy, that is his choice - but it is not the change we need.
We are the party of Roosevelt. We are the party of Kennedy. So don't tell me that Democrats won't defend this country. Don't tell me that Democrats won't keep us safe. The Bush-McCain foreign policy has squandered the legacy that generations of Americans -- Democrats and Republicans - have built, and we are here to restore that legacy.
As Commander-in-Chief, I will never hesitate to defend this nation, but I will only send our troops into harm's way with a clear mission and a sacred commitment to give them the equipment they need in battle and the care and benefits they deserve when they come home.

I will end this war in Iraq responsibly, and finish the fight against al Qaeda and the Taliban in Afghanistan. I will rebuild our military to meet future conflicts. But I will also renew the tough, direct diplomacy that can prevent Iran from obtaining nuclear weapons and curb Russian aggression. I will build new partnerships to defeat the threats of the 21st century: terrorism and nuclear proliferation; poverty and genocide; climate change and disease. And I will restore our moral standing, so that America is once again that last, best hope for all who are called to the cause of freedom, who long for lives of peace, and who yearn for a better future.
These are the policies I will pursue. And in the weeks ahead, I look forward to debating them with John McCain.
But what I will not do is suggest that the Senator takes his positions for political purposes. Because one of the things that we have to change in our politics is the idea that people cannot disagree without challenging each other's character and patriotism.

The times are too serious, the stakes are too high for this same partisan playbook. So let us agree that patriotism has no party. I love this country, and so do you, and so does John McCain. The men and women who serve in our battlefields may be Democrats and Republicans and Independents, but they have fought together and bled together and some died together under the same proud flag. They have not served a Red America or a Blue America - they have served the United States of America.

So I've got news for you, John McCain. We all put our country first.
America, our work will not be easy. The challenges we face require tough choices, and Democrats as well as Republicans will need to cast off the worn-out ideas and politics of the past. For part of what has been lost these past eight years can't just be measured by lost wages or bigger trade deficits. What has also been lost is our sense of common purpose - our sense of higher purpose. And that's what we have to restore.

We may not agree on abortion, but surely we can agree on reducing the number of unwanted pregnancies in this country. The reality of gun ownership may be different for hunters in rural Ohio than for those plagued by gang-violence in Cleveland, but don't tell me we can't uphold the Second Amendment while keeping AK-47s out of the hands of criminals. I know there are differences on same-sex marriage, but surely we can agree that our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters deserve to visit the person they love in the hospital and to live lives free of discrimination. Passions fly on immigration, but I don't know anyone who benefits when a mother is separated from her infant child or an employer undercuts American wages by hiring illegal workers. This too is part of America's promise - the promise of a democracy where we can find the strength and grace to bridge divides and unite in common effort.
I know there are those who dismiss such beliefs as happy talk. They claim that our insistence on something larger, something firmer and more honest in our public life is just a Trojan Horse for higher taxes and the abandonment of traditional values. And that's to be expected. Because if you don't have any fresh ideas, then you use stale tactics to scare the voters. If you don't have a record to run on, then you paint your opponent as someone people should run from.
You make a big election about small things.

And you know what - it's worked before. Because it feeds into the cynicism we all have about government. When Washington doesn't work, all its promises seem empty. If your hopes have been dashed again and again, then it's best to stop hoping, and settle for what you already know.

I get it. I realize that I am not the likeliest candidate for this office. I don't fit the typical pedigree, and I haven't spent my career in the halls of Washington.
But I stand before you tonight because all across America something is stirring. What the nay-sayers don't understand is that this election has never been about me. It's been about you.
For eighteen long months, you have stood up, one by one, and said enough to the politics of the past. You understand that in this election, the greatest risk we can take is to try the same old politics with the same old players and expect a different result. You have shown what history teaches us - that at defining moments like this one, the change we need doesn't come from Washington. Change comes to Washington. Change happens because the American people demand it - because they rise up and insist on new ideas and new leadership, a new politics for a new time.
America, this is one of those moments.

I believe that as hard as it will be, the change we need is coming. Because I've seen it. Because I've lived it. I've seen it in Illinois, when we provided health care to more children and moved more families from welfare to work. I've seen it in Washington, when we worked across party lines to open up government and hold lobbyists more accountable, to give better care for our veterans and keep nuclear weapons out of terrorist hands.

And I've seen it in this campaign. In the young people who voted for the first time, and in those who got involved again after a very long time. In the Republicans who never thought they'd pick up a Democratic ballot, but did. I've seen it in the workers who would rather cut their hours back a day than see their friends lose their jobs, in the soldiers who re-enlist after losing a limb, in the good neighbors who take a stranger in when a hurricane strikes and the floodwaters rise.
This country of ours has more wealth than any nation, but that's not what makes us rich. We have the most powerful military on Earth, but that's not what makes us strong. Our universities and our culture are the envy of the world, but that's not what keeps the world coming to our shores.

Instead, it is that American spirit - that American promise - that pushes us forward even when the path is uncertain; that binds us together in spite of our differences; that makes us fix our eye not on what is seen, but what is unseen, that better place around the bend.

That promise is our greatest inheritance. It's a promise I make to my daughters when I tuck them in at night, and a promise that you make to yours - a promise that has led immigrants to cross oceans and pioneers to travel west; a promise that led workers to picket lines, and women to reach for the ballot.

And it is that promise that forty five years ago today, brought Americans from every corner of this land to stand together on a Mall in Washington, before Lincoln's Memorial, and hear a young preacher from Georgia speak of his dream.
The men and women who gathered there could've heard many things. They could've heard words of anger and discord. They could've been told to succumb to the fear and frustration of so many dreams deferred.

But what the people heard instead - people of every creed and color, from every walk of life - is that in America, our destiny is inextricably linked. That together, our dreams can be one.

"We cannot walk alone," the preacher cried. "And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back."
America, we cannot turn back. Not with so much work to be done. Not with so many children to educate, and so many veterans to care for. Not with an economy to fix and cities to rebuild and farms to save. Not with so many families to protect and so many lives to mend. America, we cannot turn back. We cannot walk alone. At this moment, in this election, we must pledge once more to march into the future. Let us keep that promise - that American promise - and in the words of Scripture hold firmly, without wavering, to the hope that we confess.

Thank you, God Bless you, and God Bless the United States of America. End of Story
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Sunday, August 24, 2008
What is the lowest debasement that man can reach?
PLEASE, CLICK, AND WATCH THIS VIDEO.
STOP HIDING IN IGNORANCE


Never have I seen cruelty in such a form.
I'm angered, disgusted, ashamed.







Who are we, humans, to enforce such despicable actions upon beings who ultimately deserve the same space we share?
Is the gift of a thinking mind, reduced to this?
Amusement at a caged up being, a sentient creature tortured beyond belief?



Terri is right in saying how so many of us are hypocrites for wanting to stop violence against these innocent animals, and yet, going along with our daily routines at the expense of their lives - but I can only hope that at least, our routines will be more carefully selected with the increased awareness among the people.


Sure, we may feel helpless and insignificant in saving the animals from the torture- and the harsh reality is that one step is a long way from absolute change: but I think at the end of the day, it is a question of conscience which will bite the ends of the scientists, circus trainers, manufacturers- and us.And then comes a point where illogical experiments, unnecessary infliction of pain upon the non-thinking beings will be felt true and true just as how it hurt them- and that will be the punishment of mankind which is already surfacing now in many other forms: think - the incurables, the effects of global warming.

But for now, let us not abuse the power that we have, let us be wise in our decisions- be it cutting down on meat, turning away that snake-skinned shoe, or making a trip down to the SPCA/PAWS. Small, meaningful steps.


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Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Tell me, what are you afraid of?
Is there really a middle ground for what constitutes the world?

The idea of moderation- is it merely a matter of perception-ie: relative to personal standards which are by itself fragile anyway-change, being the only constant?

Let's take the system of governments for example- each structure is an extreme on its own- on opposite ends of the spectrum:
 
liberalism  : conservatism
democracy: monarchy
communism: capatalism
integration: separation
anarchy:coercive authority

where and how does the notion of balance, then, come into play- with the awareness that all human structures are inevitably flawed, but needed?

Is balance, ultimately key to success- or is it a mere excuse to lay indifferent in a certain cause- unflinching to dive into an ideology with passion and gusto?

Chinua Achebe (author of Things Fall Apart) emphasized greatly on the importance of sustaining balance in life- his hero of the literary piece ultimately committing suicide for failing to fight against the coming of the English to his nativeland with extremism: but without his extreme ways, and fiery spirit, moving away from the idea of balance; the hero would not have been a hero - for it is this same flaw that made him rise above the rest.(in my view, that is)

How do you want to be remembered- someone afraid of taking a stand, hence, keeping to balance; someone so matured in mentality that balance is achieved ,  or someone who fought till the very end with extreme spirit?

Perceptions, really.
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Friday, August 15, 2008
Darling, scream your lungs out!

I hate going extremely personal- but this, I MUST get off my chest before I leave to Thailand for a mini-vacation.

SARAH CHEN got 4 FLATS!! 4 Straight A's for Law, Literature, Economics and Mathematics!! 

Subject Code                           Subject Title                                            Grade

9121                               ECONOMICS                                     A

9180                               ENGLISH LITERATURE                         A

9345                               LAW                                                  A

9371                               MATHEMATICS                                    A

(p.s: the allignment is out, sorry..rushing off up north now!!)

bear with me as I blow my little trumpet please- have been trying to access my results since yesterday...and finally today, at 718am, I logged into the system!

Yes, full marks for Econs 3, 6, Statistics 1, 98/100 for Statistics 2 and well, that means 7 papers with full marks in total! 

I am a superstar!! Big Smile

and I am so going shopping!!

I can bask in the sun in peace now!

To all those who supported me, yes, posse included for putting up with my nerdiness and "but Ms C, I have question" , thank you.

To all other achievers, congratulations. And for those a little dissapointed, there's always a silver lining!!

So this means 20 days till I really leave on a jet plane to LONDON!

 

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Tuesday, August 12, 2008
On nights like these

What is the one thing that you know for sure is real?

The very fact that everything we see and know of reality is light in different shades, puts into question the issue of perception and the looking glass. What if the light is very much the shadow, and vice versa - but then again, what is a shadow? A mere contrast to light that has no inherent reality?

How does one attest the purity of one's emotions - when the very emotion itself is intangible and abstract? Would you know love when it hits you, or would you be blinded by the commercialization of the idea that makes you think in such terms? Is it the thought of companionship and romantic adulation that entices the heart, or is it the person himself/herself in the most natural state that is 'loved'? 

A random snippet of an article I wrote back as Chief Editor (yes, I was being a tad bit nostalgic!):

Believing in life and existence, in joy and in sadness, in love and hate - beliefs we've all had for the past few years of our lives. And yet, the fact cannot be denied that beliefs are matters we only assume truth in, and may not necessarily be bona fide to the rest of the world.

            Born into the universe, devoid of initial knowledge of how the system of the globe works, we solely depend on the parenting figures and their beliefs of everything and on everything. And as we grow each day in the hands of these figures, basic fundamentals satisfied, trust mounts up and we fall into a comfort zone. With the all-so-gullible mentality that the guidance provided is the way it should be, we believe.

 

 

            Everything we carry around us that we call a belief has become our own largely because of the experiences and testimonies of other people. And if it comes to us from a source outside, regardless of how persuasive the conditioning process might be, and of how many people like us have worked to convince ourselves of the truth of these beliefs; the fact that it is someone else's truth means that we must receive it with some question marks or doubts.

 

So then the question now is- when does the reevaluation graduate into fate, how does that come about; and is that even important at all?

Why is it that the human race constantly finds a need to defy their existence, to the extent that a higher power beyond themselves is looked upon as a destination of fate?

 

 

...comments, posse, Mr.Fei?.....Wink

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Wednesday, August 06, 2008
The Leadership of Tomorrow Begins Today

Finally, after weeks of meetings here and there, a whole lot of phone calls and negotiations, paperwork and daily correspondence, scribbles on the whiteboard calculating and recalculating our finances, changes of power suits and heels =p, brainstorming discussions, and yes, a few heated debates in between; the 2nd Annual Malaysian Student Leaders Summit 2008 took place at the Nikko Hotel over the weekend.

 

I shall do this in semi-point form for your easy perusal, do bear with me:

 

The organizers: the United Kingdom and Eire Council for Malaysian Students UKEC is not a society or a club, but it is a national coalition of all the societies and clubs representing Malaysian students studying in the UK and Ireland. So yes, you have reps from Oxbridge to the London circle (King's,LSE, UCL,Imperial) , from 12 regional branches in fact- who come together under this umbrella body with the aim of serving as a medium for Malaysian students abroad, promoting unity, cultural diversity, democracy, creating social and economic awareness.

 

Read more at www.ukeconline.com.

 

 

 

The summit: was essentially a platform for intellectual discourse between the prominent figures and Msian student leaders – addressing issues (social,economical,political) pertinent to today's world.

-Two jam-packed days with speeches and more importantly forums where concerns were brought to the forefront with frank questions by the sharp moderators and also the floor, as well as group discussions where 5 point resolutions/statements were made-mainly with the aim of facilitating the development of thought among the 600+ participants.

 

Some of the topics included:

"Student Activism as an element of human capital development"

-by Dato Seri Khaled Nordin, Minister of Higher Education

 

"Malaysian National Unity-Organic or Manufactured?"

-Royal Prof Ungku Aziz,VC of UM , Khoo Kay Peng,independent political analyst

 

"Reconciling Religion and Gender: the Malaysian Context"

-Zainah Anwar, Sisters In Islam, Dr.Mazeni Alwi

 

"The National Education Blueprint:Addressing Racial Polarization and Sustainable Economic Development"

-Dato Seri Hishammudin, Minister of Education

 

"The Rule of Law: A question of restoring faith in the system?"

-Datuk VC George,former C/A judge, SKRINE consultant , Yeo Yang Poh, former Bar Council President

 

and of course the highly anticipated session "Subsidies:A Question of Necessity or 'Tongkat Culture'?"

-YB Khairy Jamaludin(MP, Rembau), YB Tony Pua(MP,PJU) , YB Nik Nazmi (Assemblyman, Seri Setia)

 

highly blogged about and reported here:  http://www.msls08.com/

 

 

My random takes from this event as a whole: (from the organizing, to the agenda itself and everything in between)

 

-people always want to know what's in it for themselves, first at least

 

-Corporate social responsibility can be an ironic concept where it is done for the sake of branding one's establishment as a 'giving' corporation and not ultimately for the very cause itself

 

-it isn't what you say that matters so much, but what you do, and how you do it

 

-the creation of a democratic space for discussion among all is necessary for Malaysia, and is something that we are certainly heading towards. But it is just as crucial, for this space to remain constructive and not for pure pokes at the government, revving up unnecessary social unrest

 

-the people are AWARE. The youth are getting themselves educated about the nation and its ongoings-and that is a comforting fact

 

-it was disappointing how our very own Prime Minister failed to truly seize the opportunity to address his topic "The Role of the Government in Hollistic Development": with the issue of the brain drain and with the hundreds of Malaysian students who are studying abroad in the audience, he should have talked about what the government is currently doing in terms of improving the nation's state, and more than that, reach out to the masses about how they should return and contribute to their own homeground. Deliver an inspiring speech,and captivate the future generation; not ramble on about how his friend's mother used to speak to him in dialect to illustrate national unity!

 

-The NEP: if you can't even talk openly about the system,unable to as a community,scrutinize the pros and cons, it is unrealistic to expect successful implementation

 

-Two questions that must be addressed: are we using religion to justify discrimination? If so, do we want to remain a society bogged down such?

 : what is equality really- equality of opportunities?

 

-To succeed in the corporate world (in the words of Tengku Zafrul, lest mistaken) – be smart, work hard, and importantly, ensure that your heart is in the right place to begin with

 

-Until parties are confident enough to prioritize other issues beyond race and religion, we will remain a society so consumed with self-righteousness, holding us back from holistic development. There is an imperative to move away from race-based politics and similarly maintain the rights of the people, first, as individuals.

 

-The rule of law: an independent judiciary means honesty, fairness in the decisions of the courts- first, the judge must act accordingly to what he thinks is right, and, what is right by law for he is not a free agent.

"the rule of law fundamentally dignifies human existence-it inspires,upholds, and more than that,is an arbiter,a guide" – Tony Blair, in the talk I managed to squeeze into schedule Friday.

 

-timing is everything. Thanks to Amanda, the chief whip for the two days, we were very much on track.

 

-there will be more than one instruction to carry out at a time, and demands for prompt delivery by all parties; the key is to remain calm under pressure and do as much as asked without too many questions.

 

-get things right the first time, be meticulous.

 

 

 

Honestly, I could go on with the many things I've learned and picked up throughout this crazy journey which started off as me coming in as a potential junior to "observe, see how things are done". True, I came in unequipped, a fresh leaf; but with the help and guidance from the entire team- I pulled through with more than what I expected to gain. And I emceed in Bahasa Malaysia after a long break away from the formal use of the language!

 

To the team, I express my deepest gratitude to all of you; and I'm looking forward to more !(yes, deep inside I'm a workaholic too. Jared says I attract responsibility.so much for bumming during the break!)

Cheers.

Let us, make a difference, today.

 

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Friday, July 25, 2008
Listen to that heartbeat my dear.
I'm a strong believer of learning each day, in every little way- whether intended or not.

The truth is that each individual has his/her share of positive and negative traits - some of which may never seem apparent until a certain circumstance demands such performance. Opportunities come knocking by often, but quality opportunities come only in a handful- and hence, needs to be embraced for what it is, and be greatly valued.
Sure, there will be trying times when what seemed flawless and near perfect turns its ugly side- but at the end of the day, one must remember the genuine truth of what that opportunity is, and how much has blossomed from that one decision.

....pre-event advertising soon: THE 2ND MALAYSIAN STUDENT LEADERS SUMMIT 2008!

Till then,
Cheerios
Big Smile



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Friday, July 18, 2008
Questioning The Brain Theory

From The Star:

KUALA LUMPUR: The main criterion for academic scholarships should be based on scholastic results and not subjective terms like interview performance and students’ participation in extra curricular activities (ECA), said Datuk S. Subramaniam.

The president of Nesa Multipurpose Cooperative Society (Nesa) said the criteria, apart from academic excellence, should be abolished.

-While I do agree that academic excellence is of importance, I must disagree that it should be the sole deciding factor in awarding scholarships:

1. What kind of society are we aiming for- booksmarts who are concerned only with what's written in text; or a well-rounded group able to adapt in different circumstances faced with, and still fare well?

2. What about the streetsmarts who shine in unconventional areas - are they to be sidelined and discouraged for lacking 'intelligence'? Do we want to move towards a world where suicide among students who falter under the pressure becomes a norm?

3.What about other factors- family background and the like?Shouldn't that be taken into consideration, if the intent is to reduce the financial burden of bright students with a monetary handicap?

Sure, the development of the mind is essential in building a cerebral society that would potentially contribute significantly to the nation. But, the real world demands so much more than academic excellence(think of the chinese tycoons who have made it big with not so much as a degree in hand!) - adaptability and versatility, social skills, dedication and drive, a positive attitude; balance is key.

The criterion for scholarsips needs to be reevaluated- does the quota system still apply, and is the allocation done fairly and in the most just manner? What is the ultimate aim of these scholarships- what does Corporate Social Responsibility really mean?

Let's start thinking sense, and stop making reforms here and there that obviously serve only a political purpose.

"Complicated lah- Malaysia, you know, system like that wan."

Excuse me, but things aren't always complicated- it's the people who make the system, the people who make things complicated.

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Sunday, July 13, 2008
Tun M turns 83
The day was a hectic one for me – with two major events lined up back to back: first, the awaited visit to the Pink Triangle Foundation as part of my attachment programme at the Legal Aid Centre, and second, Tun Mahathir's birthday celebration at Uncle Sabri's new place: Kelantan Delights:
(congratulations Uncle!)
Shades

advertorial: do visit Kelantan Delights, 1st Floor SOOKA Sentral (across the road from

 departure exit of KL Sentral) for yummy Kelantanese food-fine dining style!



Specialty: Blue coloured rice-nasi kerabu, Tomyam in a coconut!

 Admiring the cake

I first shook hands with Tun M and Tun Siti Hasmah at the tender age of 10, with a red scarf tied across my forehead for a sajak recital during one of BAKTI's (Minister's Wives Association) events, as a Golden Kid (for those still unaware-I was once a child tv host on RTM for Golden Kids News/Club, of which has spun off to become 15 year developmental programme involving charity work, issue based events and the like with the new name of Young Achievers Club). I remember how the power couple, whom still have the same kind of zeal they had years back, would look at us kids with so much respect and love- and hence, showed their keen support in many of our undertakings as a children group in Malaysia. One of which is of course, the trip to Iraq, where the few were lucky enough to visit the shelters, hospitals and schools of Baghdad; and take in a glimpse of the suffering of the children there- ultimately changing our perspectives on war and how it is for sure, that the children are always the losers in the adult's game of war.

Tun M and Tun Siti Hasmah have always been lovers of children, they recognize the importance of the generation as leaders of tomorrow; and it is this that I will remember them by. Years have passed, and Tun M himself has experienced many ups and downs in his political career- some steps taken of which would have offended many, hurt many, bringing out viewpoints on issues that I too, may not entirely agree on; but at the end of the day, I personally believe that he has done much for the country- he has put our nation on the map of the world, to be more than that 'thing' above Singapore.

On the day of celebration he turned 83, (and his dear wife's birthday followed suit 48 hours later), and I was extremely honoured to be there with him and hear him speak to us again. I shook his hands, and even after 9 years since I first held his hand in mine, I still felt the same warmth and energy as I did when he pat me on the head.
So once again,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TUN M, AND TUN SITI HASMAH!
Big Smile

For more details and pictures, click here for Rocky/Big Dogs article *(do read comments that follow, you're in for a sure laugh!)

*disclaimer:this article does not in anyway project political affiliations of the author, and the author strictly remains on neutral grounds as of this point*

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